Usually because you're going to tone down that part of him a little, I would leave your Opt-out post alone and just ask you to make sure to ask every time the issue comes up.
However, since sexual harassment / assualt is one of the more serious subject matters I think it might be best to play it safe, and call it an Opt-IN, instead. My suggestion would be the following:
Under your "Content Opt-out" post, add a comment for Opting Into his shenanigans.
When a situation arises in RP that calls for it (use your best judgement on when that is), ask the player to reply to that comment.
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However, since sexual harassment / assualt is one of the more serious subject matters I think it might be best to play it safe, and call it an Opt-IN, instead. My suggestion would be the following:
Under your "Content Opt-out" post, add a comment for Opting Into his shenanigans.
When a situation arises in RP that calls for it (use your best judgement on when that is), ask the player to reply to that comment.
Sorry to be a pain in the ass - Sound good?